Day 0: Confession of an Affair
“What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?” – Romans 8:31
I’m still learning to hold to this. The day you confess or your spouse confesses to you that they have been having an affair remember this! Gather all the faith you can to hold onto this trust.
The first couple of weeks my wife asked me so many times, “Do you believe all things are possible with Christ?” Sometimes she asked it with confidence, other times she asked in despair needing me to believe for her and yet other times she asked in anger because she knew that I was not by faith holding to this promise.
God has fought for you and for your marriage in Christ. He will empower you as you fight for your marriage, your spouse, for your kids and for your own self. He loves you and wants your life, marriage and family healthy and full of life.
When you are in the darkest moments remember God is for you! He loves you perfectly and that all things are possible with God.
Our story is not your story. We didn’t do this all “right” but by God’s grace we stayed at it. His love and grace carry us through each and every one of the stumbles along the way. No matter the pain, hug and hold eachother especially when it hurts the most or when you have no idea what to do!