We are a couple that is surviving the worst betrayal a marriage can suffer…affairs. Not only are we surviving it we are thriving as Christ continues His healing work in our lives. I write this humbly it was not long ago that I confessed to the sin I was living in. My wife and I still have a lot healing to do and trust is a long way from being restored. None of this is about us being experts but rather as friends sharing our journey. 

We have been married over 15 years and have followed Christ for much of our lives. We have a number of children that are still at home. My wife has a great job and God is using her in big ways in the lives of others. I am currently unemployed and looking for work.

You may be saying to yourself, “this guy sure is writing vaguely.” Yes, I am! For good reason to. Early on we made the decision that we needed to protect our children through the healing process. We had wise counselors encouraging us to do this. Very few people know what has actually transpired in our lives over the last several months. At the right time we will be more open with who we are but for now we will write anonymously.

Despite this we have felt the need to share our story with others in order to testify to the miraculous work that Jesus Christ has done in our lives. One wise counselor shared, “yes your story is inspiring but more than that it is transformational.” We are simply where we are today because Jesus showed up in a big way in our life. 

If you are healing from being in an affair or from having your spouse cheat on you we hope that this site can encourage you to have hope and turn everything over to Jesus. We have not done this perfectly but God has been so kind and gracious. 

You will thrive again because with God all things are possible! 

In Christ,


P.S.  Please contact us if you have questions or a listening ear.